Making Memories One Step at a Time - Planning Your First Wedding Dance
At the heart of your wedding day lies a moment which embodies the essence of love,
connection, and celebration—the first wedding dance. It is a powerful expression of your love story, and planning it is a journey of crafting beautiful memories. In this article, courtesy of Anthony Auffret from
First Dance Academy, we will explore how to plan your first wedding dance, ensuring that every step is a moment to remember.
The Significance of the First Wedding Dance
The first wedding dance is a time-honoured tradition, and it holds deep significance in weddings around the world. It symbolises the unity of the couple. Marking the beginning of your journey together as a married couple, and every step you take on the dance floor echoes your commitment to each other.
Your chosen song and dance style allows you to express your feelings and emotions, creating a powerful connection with your partner and your guests. It is one of the most enduring memories of your wedding day and a moment that you and your guests will carry in your hearts for years to come. Your choice of song and dance style offers a unique opportunity for personal expression.
Whether you opt for a classic waltz, a lively swing, or a contemporary routine, your dance should reflect your personalities and your journey as a couple. The first dance can set the tone for the entire evening. It can create a romantic and enchanting atmosphere or a fun and lively one, inspiring your guests to join you on the dance floor.
Planning Your First Wedding Dance: Step by Step
Choose Your Perfect Song
The heart of your first dance lies in the song you choose. Think about songs that hold sentimental value in your relationship. It could be the song from your first date, the one that played during your proposal, or a tune that captures your love story. Your chosen song should tie in with the overall style and theme of your wedding. Whether you're planning a classic, elegant affair or a more modern and casual celebration, the song should complement the ambiance. Don't limit yourself to a single genre. Explore various styles of music, from timeless love ballads to contemporary hits, to find a song that resonates with both of you. And pay attention to the lyrics as they should convey the emotions and sentiments you want to express on your wedding day. Sometimes, the words are just as important as the melody.
Select the Right Dance Style
The dance style you choose should reflect your personalities and complement your song. Some
popular options include:
The Waltz: Elegant and timeless, a classic choice for traditional weddings. Its graceful movements exude romance and sophistication.
Swing or Jive: If you're a couple with a zest for life, this style can add an element of fun and energy to your first dance.
Contemporary Dance: For those seeking a modern touch, contemporary dance offers creative freedom. It's an opportunity to choreograph a unique routine that captures your story.
Salsa or Latin Dance: Salsa, cha-cha, and other Latin dances bring a passionate and fiery flair to your first dance.
Two-Step or Country Dance: Ideal for rustic or country-themed weddings, the two-step or country dance exudes a relaxed, down-to-earth charm.
Take Dance Lessons
If you're not an experienced dancer, don't worry! Taking dance lessons is an excellent way to prepare for your first wedding dance. Enlist the help of a professional dance instructor who specialises in wedding dances. They can create choreography that suits your skill level and style.
They will tailor the dance to your chosen song, ensuring that it complements the music perfectly and through regular lessons, you'll gain the confidence and skills needed to perform your dance flawlessly.
And don’t forget the finer details.
For example, practice your dance in your wedding shoes and factor in any accessories, such as a veil or train. And ensure that your band/DJ has a clear understanding of your first dance requirements. Provide them with the exact version of your chosen song, including any edits or special transitions you've planned. This ensures that the music flows seamlessly during your performance. While aiming for a flawless performance is natural, remember that the most important aspect of your first dance is the love you share. Don't fret over minor missteps; they often add charm and authenticity.
Personalise Your Dance
To truly make your first wedding dance memorable, consider adding personal touches. Weave elements of your love story into the dance. It could be a special move that signifies a significant moment in your relationship or a shared inside joke that you express through your dance. If you're feeling adventurous, surprise your guests with a unique twist during your dance. This could be an unexpected change in music or an impressive lift or dip that leaves everyone in awe. Make your dance even more heartwarming by including close family members or members of your wedding party. A choreographed group dance can be a delightful addition to your performance.
Planning your first wedding dance is more than just another task on your wedding to-do checklist; it's a journey of love, expression, and celebration. So step onto the dance floor, embrace each other, and dance like nobody's watching, because this dance is not about the steps; it's about the love and connection that you share as a couple.
credit: Anthony Auffret